“The first step
towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to say where you
are.” —Chauncey Depew
The first dedicated time of the morning is the most
important time of the day. What we engage in first, determines how our day will
end. The best thing about this outcome is that we determine it.
After brushing my teeth, I have breakfast: one sweet
roll, a slice of cranberry-walnut bread covered with peanut butter and black
coffee. Same breakfast, most mornings, for three years, same results I feel
good. I embrace the smell, taste, and touch of the roll, the toast, and coffee.
I don’t get distracted by checking emails, reading a newspaper, listening to
the radio or viewing the TV. I concentrate on the roll, the bread, and the
coffee. This triple delight ignites all of my taste buds. I live in the moment.
The hot coffee awakens me; the sweet role stimulates me, and the peanut butter
toast provides a “filling” or rounding out role.
The outside world is still outside because I have not
allowed it to invade my inside moment.
Yes, intrusions will happen but not just now. I live in the moment and
the present moment doesn’t include external communication noise.
You may start the day with a shower—hot or cold—to
invigorate you. The sound and feel of the water “raining” on your body, and the
isolation of the shower maybe your FIRST ACTIVITY OF THE DAY.
Some people’s FIRST ACTIVITY OF THE DAY includes a
devotional time of Bible study and prayer. They meditate on the things they are
thankful for and lift up other people through intercessory prayer.
For some of the most productivity people, THE FIRST
ACTIVITY OF THE DAY is some form of exercise, including jogging or walking.
These events can lead to optimizing and maximizing the remainder of the day.
The isolation of running or walking provide a sense of being one with nature.
We are a small part of the world, but an important part. Once we exit the
exercise activity, we are better prepared to engage the opportunities of the
day.
You can name many other activities that make up THE
FIRST ACTIVITY OF THE DAY. Everyone has a FIRST ACTIVITY OF THE DAY. The
important thing is not that we all start our day with some activity, but that
the event sets the stage for a happy and prosperous day.
THE FIRST ACTIVITY OF THE DAY is not a preparation
step; it is a state of enjoyment and happiness. In this first exercise, you
simply enjoy your activity of the moment. Your singular focus is to relax,
filter out fear, and ignore worry, anxiety. You own the moment and this moment
has no parameters—you aren’t searching for a Eureka or an aha moment. You
aren’t searching for anything. You have found it in the simple enjoyment of the
moment.
Ritual, In the Moment, Enjoy and Anticipate, Positive
Activity. These are the main elements of the FIRST ACTIVITY OF THE DAY—the
principles that can help us create a successful day.
1. It’s a ritual. You do it every morning
at the same time. If we empty ourselves first, plan second, and execute. Third,
we develop a habit of success and happiness.
2. Live at the moment. Isolate your
thinking to the present moment. Don’t focus on yesterday or tomorrow—just enjoy
the now. You can’t change yesterday, and you can’t create tomorrow but, you can
change and create your today.
3. Enjoy and anticipate. Look forward to
and enjoy the coffee, the jog, the meditation, the shower or, whatever you
define as your FIRST ACTIVITY OF THE DAY. You're in your “zone”, own it.
4. It’s a positive activity that increases the
sense of personal responsibility. In these first few minutes of the day,
you set the stage for the remainder of your day. As you live in the moment—free
of distractions, negativity, and anxiety— you create energy and enthusiasm for
the next eight to ten hours.
Only after you have completed THE FIRST ACTIVITY OF
THE DAY do you consider how you want the day to end—what will success look
like? Then, from that success point, look back to the present and determine
what you must do to achieve your goal.
In our lifetime, we will have good mornings and some
bad mornings. The trouble with leaving the mornings to chance is we may get
more bad mornings than we want, or deserve. This simple plan is designed to
provide you with more good mornings and days.
The possibilities are unlimited when you start the day
your way! I know a cup of black coffee,
a sweet roll, and a slice of cranberry-walnut bread topped with peanut butter
provide me with more good mornings and productive days than I deserve.
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