23 TIPS FOR CREATING YOUR REALITY

People have a self-ideal (who they want to be) and a self-image (how they see themselves). To experience high self-esteem and have meaning, purpose, and happiness in your life, you need to focus on your current reality (self-image) and how to improve it. The goal is to improve your reality (self-image) and not to lower your expectations (self-ideal).

Fortunately, with the proper focus and execution, you can improve your reality. Here are 23 ways.

Replace “doubt with “confidence.”

Replace “impossible” with “possible.”

Replace “I’m tired” with “one more step.”

Replace “I’m limited” with “I’m outside the box.”

Replace “I am not” with “I am.”

Replace “I am a failure with “I failed.”

Replace “I failed” with “Here’s my new plan.”

Replace “I am no one” with “I am someone.”

Replace “hate’ with “love.”

Replace “try” with “do.’

Replace “thoughtfulness’” with “appreciation.”

Replace “me” with “team.”   

Replace “blame” with “what went wrong?”

Replace “past” with “present.”

Replace “you’re wrong” with “Let me think about that.”

Replace “underperforming” with “stellar performance.”

Replace “lying” with “truth.”

Replace "closed mind” with an “open mind.”

Replace “ignorance” with “understanding.”

Replace “effort” with “results.”

Replace “avoidance” with “interaction.”

Replace “procrastination” with “action.”

Replace “folly” with “wisdom.”

Replace “someday” with “today.”